This time around, we decided not to announce to ANYONE (not even Jody or our parents!) until we passed the 12 week mark, which happened to fall right before Thanksgiving! We told Jody right before we left for Santa Barbara. She was so excited! She wore her "big Sister" shirt to school and was telling everyone! Once we got to Santa Barbara (late Wed night), She couldn't wait to tell her Grandparents! Mom knew somehow already! Jody went to ask Mark if she could tell, and Mom looked at me as asked "Are you?!?!" She was so excited for her 2nd grandchild! This pregnancy was so different. I was not sick, but I was constantly thirsty and averaged about 100oz of water/day! I had gestational diabetes, which proved to be a challenge while still providing the meals that my family loves!
This is our last picture as a family of 3 (even though little Mark is hiding under that sweater!)
Christmas is always fun as Mark and his Brothers provide entertainment and embarrassment with their gag gifts. Jody has taken to playing Santa, and I really think she gets more joy from that than actually opening her gifts! The next few years should prove interesting as she is able to understand some of the gag gifts that the uncles exchange!
In January, our family made some big changes. I quit my job, as much as I loved what I was doing, they were not providing enough hours for me to cover Jody's tuition even! On top of that, we were really unhappy with the way things were done at her school (she had moved from the elementary school to the middle school this year), and felt that she was not getting the education she should be getting. We decided to pull her and home school for the rest of the year as she doesn't want to go to public school. Homeschooling had its own set of challenges and it was a big adjustment for all of us! She enjoyed it, as did I, so we have re-enrolled her for this coming school year as well.
We welcomed Mark Ryan Jr on May 22, 2013! He certainly has completed our family! Big Sister is spoiling him already! He is now a month old and we are really getting into a routine. He is a definite Mama's boy! He loves his sister and is starting to recognize her and will smile and give her kisses. He is already learning about computer gaming from Big Mark, and loves to watch the movement on the screen! He is a great sleeper and sleeps 3-4 hour stretches at night! He also has had his 1st road trip already! He went to Santa Barbara when he was just 2 days old! He got to meet his Grandma and Grandpa and all his uncles on that side. Grandma lit up when she saw him and loved getting to hold him! I was able to snap a few pictures of them together, and they will be cherished pictures forever.
Which brings me to the sad part of this post. My lovely Mother-in-law finished her battle with cancer and moved on this week. We are all working through this time in our own ways. The bond she and I shared was awesome. I always heard these awful stories about Mil's, and was terrified that my experience would be much the same. Boy was I wrong! I couldn't have asked for a better one! I learned so much from her in the past 11 years! She was definitely a very strong woman. She and Jody were super close, and I loved that Jody was able to spend so much time with her, and I see parts of her in Jody everyday. I really am at a loss for words when talking about her, an will probably revisit this part of the post at another time, once I have worked through more emotions.
I think that this post has gotten long enough! Little Mark should be waking up to eat soon anyway, so I should get some sleep while I can!
Larissa